I thought it might be good to give some basic guidelines for decorating your home. To many of you these will not be revelatory, but I'm hoping they might be helpful to others. This list includes the first 6 that came to my mind, however, I soon started thinking of many others so perhaps there will be a part two. And it should be noted that there are always exceptions to rules, but usually those are best executed by a trained eye. The following images are included for fun and inspiration (not as examples of mistakes)
1. Insufficient Lighting
This is perhaps the worst of the offenders. One overhead light source makes for horrible ambience. Most rooms can use 4-5 light sources. Recessed lights, table lamps, floor lamps, task lamps, uplights, the options are almost endless.
If you are living with one overhead light source, then add a couple of table lamps and a floor lamp and see what a difference they make in warmth and ambience. If price is prohibitive then pick some up at the thrift store and spray paint them.
Think about your lighting needs for that room, and get task lighting where appropriate. Light up dark corners of a room. Finally, if you're hardwiring lighting then use dimmers rather than just on/off switches.
2. Too Small Area Rugs
You can find different guidelines on this, but my preference is for at least the front two legs of the main pieces of furniture to be sitting on the area rug. A more finished look would have the rug be large enough to accommodate the entire seating area. If your rug is too small, one option is to layer it over a larger neutral rug which will then act as a border for your smaller rug.
Of course it is possible to have your rug be too big, but anecdotal evidence tells me that more often than not people are erring on the too small side.
3. Unattractive Window Treatments
There are too many variables in this topic to really get specific, so I'm planning an indepth blogpost just about window treatments. For now, my general advice would be that you should hang your curtain rod high to give the illusion of grander windows, and wide so that when open the drapes are covering wall, not window. Also, they should be at least long enough to kiss the floor.
4. Too Matchy Matchy
Your look need not be as eclectic as the above image (in fact I would say you need to have a really good eye to pull that off well) but you also want to avoid matching sets of furniture. If' you're hesitant about mixing it up then try two chairs that match each other, but not the sofa. If you already have the matching set than mix it up with some complimentary, but not matching throw pillows. Throw in some unique looking lamps, and accent pieces for a more collected look.
5. Artwork Hung Too High
This happens a lot; don't feel bad about it! Hang your artwork so that the center of the piece is around 5 feet high. Again there are exceptions, but this is a general guideline. You want your art to be at eye level.
6. Clutter
It's a time tested adage; only have in your home what you use or what you love. When my husband and I first got married, I felt like to be grown up I should display all of the grown-up wedding gifts we received. But in displaying everything, your eye goes to nothing, and nothing is special. Curate your belongings, and be merciless.